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Lets Talk About Sex Toys

       So, my friend K, asked about sex toys. Particularly, how to suggest to a significant other that one is interested in the use of sex toys without offending. So oyinbo man brought 50 shades of grey to your attention, you people are all eager to be sticking stuff into every hole you can find right? Toh, it’s a free world and as always, I do not judge.

       Anyway, COMMUNICATION, COMMUNICATE, TALK. Once you and your significant other have mastered the art of communication everything else comes easy.

       There are various types of sex toys, other than the advanced ones that people are more aware of. There are edible under wear, feathers for tickling, Ben Wa balls, dildos, nipple rings, penis sleeves, etc. Even flavored condoms and lingerie can be considered as sex toys.

       Assuming you guys communicate well and understand and see each other’s view, you can just say let's do something freaky, suggest a sex toy that he will enjoy, let's say those feathers for tickling, you guys can use it on each other. Play around and enjoy the play. Then after a few days you can suggest another. Don't go and start with the advanced sex toys like Mega dildos and butt plugs, toh, my hand no dey.

       Or better yet, sit him down and watch 50 Shades of Grey together. Make sure when he starts showing her and using the sex toys on her you pass a positive comment or a suggestion. Men are very visual in nature, as he's seeing it there he will be imagining it too. If your man likes to be read to, read the book to him and emphasis on the sexual parts where all the sex toys are used.

       You can go further and ask him what he might like. Spice it up in your own special way. Add personal effects, it makes it more special and intimate. Plus originality is always a good thing. Tie him up and have your way with him, or have him tie you up, while you are wearing the edible under wear, and allow him to eat it (you) up.

Waist beads can be used to entice and play too. Especially on curvy women, the beads lie on the hips seductively and make slight jingling sounds as you move. If you are a good dancer or know how to shake what your mama gave you, these waist beads will make the experience even more seductive.

       Almost anything can be a sex toy if you know how to use it to your advantage. Just free your mind, get your partner on the same page as you are, wash up, smell nice, make the room really comfy and inviting, wear something sexy or your birthday suit and enjoy.<3 <3 <3