VENUS UNLEASHED

I decided to start this blog because I noticed a lot of women especially Hausa women (though this blog is not just for hausa women, even men can learn a lot from it), who feel that sex is just a duty between man and wife, or girlfriend and boyfriend, I don't judge, well I'm here to tell you that you are wrong. Sex is something to be enjoyed. It's not simply a duty. It should be something you look forward to. And it's not only the man that should enjoy or initiate sex. We women enjoy it too, believe it or not. There is no law that states we can not enjoy it as much as men do or initiate it. Infact, most men I have asked say they love it when the woman initiates sex, this is because they know for sure she is horny and ready to go. And trust me, a woman that is horny before you is a treasure, she may be more willing to try new stuff out, no matter how perverted. (Yes we know you have perverted thoughts so drop the act)

I must admit it's not as easy for us women to be turned on as it is for men, but with a little effort we could make it a little easier.

Foreplay is quiet essential, most women would agree that it helps "oil the wheels", "fill the honey pot", etc, before the main deed. It gives us  time to relax and make us more likely to have comfortable and honest sex.

What is honest sex you ask? Well, most of you men may not like to hear this but you guys can be crappy in bed, yes I said CRAPPY, you may think just having a penis and slamming it into us as if you are pounding yam, is enough to satisfy us, HABA, well guess what, IT ISN'T. And most of the time we just don't say anything because you think you know better than us or your little egos will get bruised the moment we show you or tell you "you ain't doing it right", and most women don't have time to deal with your mood swings and bitch fits. So listen to your woman, listen to her body, listen to her heartbeat, listen to her breath, you could learn a lot that could save you from unpleasant sex and in the process you may be suprised at how things will change for you in the bedroom, bathroom, living room kitchen or even in the car. I don't judge.

So as a summary, communication is key to good and enjoyable sex. Peace out. Till my next post.