Let's keep it clean.

What inspired this post is my new found love of getting head. ( oral sex, eating the love oyster). Personally, i was not a fan of oral sex, but quite recently, i was made a believer. 🙋🏽. Dear God in heaven. If you find yourself a man that can eat you like his life depends on it, then sister, you are one lucky woman. Chai, Diaris God.

HOWEVER, before you go spreading ya legs and serving your pleasure pit for dessert to your man, ask yourself a few questions. 

How clean are you? Ladies for the love of all things good, that place should ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS be clean. Biko, using water to clean that place everytime you use the toilet is not just for muslim women abeg. EVERY woman needs to do this. Urine smells, especially when it becomes stale, and im telling you, people can smell it. And apart from the smell it is very unhygienic. You stand a higher chance of infections. 

When was the last time you went to your gaenacologist to have your pleasure pot assessed? Yeast infections, bacterial infections etc. there are so many things that can be wrong down there that is just not healthy and absolutely nasty to be carrying around. Book an appointment with your doctor and have yourself checked. All it takes usually is just a round of antibiotics and some cream that you apply topically into your pleasure pot to clear most of these issues. And also keep in mind that its not just through sex that you could get these issues, poor hygiene and unsanitary practices and toilets are usually the culprits.

How does your pleasure pot smell? Sisters, admit it, there are times where even you are shocked by what you smell down there. However, in some cases this smell is not due to infections, it may actually be from what you eat. Coffee, seafood, artificial sweeteners, garlic, onions etc have been known to make you smell like death down there. Consume these things and other food items with strong smells in moderation.

Sisters SHAVE YOUR PUSSIES. I know some of you will say, "but my man likes it hairy". Toh, that one is between you and him. But gaskiya, a hairy and unclean pussy is just bloody nasty. If you wont shave then take extra time to wash and clean yourself and add some nice smelling oils or perfumes down there. I have had some of my male friends tell me they broke up with many wonderful ladies because of  how nasty their pleasure pots where, and they couldn't tell them to clean up. Hair hides shit. So please please please be extra vigilant when cleaning up.

Your clean up routine should double during your menstrual cycle. Blood has an offensive smell, no matter how fresh it is, not to talk of when it becomes stale. Change your sanitary pads every few hours please as much as possible. Use cotton pads that breathe, for your own safety. Expensive doesn't necessarily mean good when it comes to sanitary pads so please keep that in mind when purchasing.

Now, there are things you can use to help you stay fresh down there. 

One of them is Musk. This is a white oil perfume that has been used for centuries by middle eastern women to keep fresh. After every monthly period, they soak a small wad of cotton with this perfume and insert into the vagina, they leave it for some time then take it out. It is known for its anti fungal properties and very pleasant scent. You can use a tampon or clinical guaze in place of the cotton swab. I personally use guaze. This is a very effective, simple and pocket friendly way of ensuring that you always smell good and your honey pot is safe. An added advantage is that it has tightening effect to the vagina so its a win win.

Another way of staying fresh and clean is adding a few drops of Tea tree oil to water that you use to wash up down there. It has a lovely aroma and its very gentle to the skin. Its natural and quite affordable. The one in the picture is the one i use personality. I got it from a lady on Instagram that sells natural oils. 

You may also consider adding a little salt and a little anticeptic to a basin of warm clean water once in a while and sitting in it for a few minutes. It helps to disinfect the whole area and freshens you up.

I have heard of some dietary supplements that flavour your juices and gives it a pleasant scent. I have not tried any so i will not say anything about what i do not know. But im just telling you what i heard incase one of you ladies is adventurous.

Please please please ladies, keep your pleasue pot clean before you serve these men biko. Eh, not everyone likes fish abeg. 

Alright ladies, this will do for you. I may do a series for the men one of these days. If you guys are interested, leave a comment or send me an email. Bye 👋🏽